Mom And Me

Beberapa bulan lagi aku akan segera melepas masa lajangku dengan menikah dengan seorang laki2 bernama mr X ...

hmmm sempat kena pre marital sindrome juga, panic, pusing, insomnia uring-uringan bahkan sempat benci juga sama mr X karena aku merasa dia yang sebentar lagi akan merenggut kebebasanku. aku ga bisa lagi ngeceng ma temen2, windows shopping sama dewi, begadang maen game..

tapi di sisi lain hati..ada keinginan untuk menikah, dilematis. sementara ibu yang selama ini aku pikir senang dengan kondisiku saat ini, lajang, bawaannya fun ternyata sedih memikirkan kenapa aku blm menikah. jadilah aku menikah dengan pertimbangan itu, agar ibuku bahagia, dan ternyata keinginan itu juga didukung oleh kakak2ku..

pengennya aku bisa membahagiakan ibu sebelum kau menikah, pengen bisa nyenengin ibu, ngajak blanja, klilink -klilink, biayain naek haji tapi ternyata justru keinginanku untuk menunda pernikahan membuat ibu selalu berfikir. Mungkin karena aku putri dan anak terakhir yang belum nikah, bahkan adik sudah terlebih dahulu menikah.

eh mr x tolong jangan salah sangka, aku juga berniat kok nikah sama kamu bukan hanya karna ingin membahagiakan ibu.

tapi kemaren sempat trenyuh, terharu sewaktu pagi aku mau brangkat kerja ibu menyuapi aku sambil berucap " mumpung masih bisa nyuapin, kalo besok udah ada orang lain yang nyuapin " , duuuh jadi pengen nangis.
Mudah-mudahan setelah ini, ibu dapat menjalankan rukun islam ke lima dengan tenang, karena sudah tidak ada tanggungan lagi.

The Power of Feeling Good

Artikel ini berisi review tentang kekuatan berfikir positif,
bagus diterapkan dalam kehidupan sehari2, dan memang aku sangat
mempercayainya karena kenyataan ketika aku berfikir positif maka
selalu ada jalan untuk meraih apa yang diimpikan. SO lets start to
always positif think..ga rugi ko

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Today I am going to share a powerful lesson that
you can use to immediately achieve any success
you want in your life. And I promise you that if
you do what I suggest you do, your success is
guaranteed.

You will have everything you want in your life
and enjoy the total fulfillment that you deserve.
Remember this… there is no limit to what you can
have, be and do. Every thing you can imagine, you
can achieve. And you are going to find out how to
do it now... Feeling excited? Let’s play a “what
if” game. What if you could ask 100 of the most
successful people in the world whether there was
a single magic secret to success? What if they
told you there was? What if they all gave you the
same answer? Are you willing to do what they
suggest you do?

Well I don't know what they will tell you, but I
do know, from years of studying the most
successful people, that there is one single most
important factor that contributes to more of
their success than any other factors combined,
and anyone can use it to achieve his success no
matter who he is, or what his current conditions
are.

You must be eager to know what this secret is.
Let me tell you now.

Listen Up!

The single most important factor for successful
people is simply feeling good.

If success is really that simple, then why are so
many people struggling?

That is a good question. We have been taught that
in order to achieve something, we have to suffer
first. It has been said, no pain no gain. But I
tell you this ...That is ABSOLUTELY false.

Look at the life of a highly successful person.
Is he suffering, is he struggling? If he is, then
I can assure you that he is not successful in the
area that he is struggling against. He may look
successful in a certain area, but very
unsuccessful in others. Have you ever seen a
multimillionaire who is suffering from bad
health? Why does that happen? He has all the
money he needs to hire the best doctors in the
world, why is he still suffering from ill health?

Here is what‘s really happening…

He is highly successful financially, because he
feels really good about himself in the financial
area; he is unsuccessful physically, because he
feels bad about his health.

The point I want to make is this. If you notice
someone who is extremely successful in one area,
then you will be certain to notice he feels great
about himself in that area. He has been
conditioned to feel good in that area, just like
most people have been conditioned to struggle in
some areas of life.

If you are still not convinced, perhaps you can
think of it this way. How do you define success?
It is certainly not just about setting a goal and
achieving it. That is important, but it’s only
part of the story. Success in my definition and
in most successful people's definition is about
enjoying a state of well-being in every moment of
our existence. It all comes down to a state of
feeling good. You may not agree with me, you may
consider success as having a million dollars in
your bank account; you may consider success as
being famous as a public figure. Then let me ask
you a question: “why do you want a million
dollars?”, or “why do you want to be a famous
person?” If you think hard about this question,
you will find that all you want is simply to feel
good.

Here is the big mistake that most people make.
They think they are going to be happy once they
get that million dollars, they think they will be
happy once they become a superstar. But when they
reach that goal, they feel a moment of
excitement, and finally they realize that that is
all there is. And then they set a higher goal,
and wish they will be happy once they reach that
goal. They will never be happy as long as they
don’t change their approach. Then what is the
right approach?

Since your ultimate goal is to feel good, then
why not choose to feel good right now? How do you
do that? It is simply by choosing to feel good at
this moment. It is as simple as that. People have
spent great amounts of money searching for
techniques and strategies to make them
successful, but they forget that the most
powerful tool is the most fundamental; it is
simply feeling good.

You may say "it is easier said than done, how can
I feel good if I am broke?" If that is how you
think, here is my answer to you... There are only
two kinds of feeling we experience every day. One
is feeling good, and one is feeling bad. Good
feelings send a powerful signal to the universe,
and through the law of attraction, you will
attract people, circumstances and events to match
your state of feeling good. Bad feelings also
send a powerful signal to the universe to bring
back people, circumstances and events to match
your state of feeling bad.

Have you seen that?

Feelings are the causes, conditions are the
effects. You cannot get away from being broke if
you are feeling bad. You only reinforce the
cause.

So begin to feel good one way or another, no
matter what conditions you are in.

At the moment you choose to feel good, amazing
things will happen.

If you don't believe me, try it. You have nothing
to lose.

http://theultimatesecrets.com/

hari ini awal bulan dan hari pertama di bulan ini aku kembali ke kantor..hmm hari ini schedule lumayan padat, eh iya dimana kok mpe jam segini rekan kerjaku blm datang, sabtu kemaren dia ga brangkat karena ijin mo mudik katanya, nengokin ortu dirumah. dan senin ini harusnya dia udah kembali bekerja..